Now it all makes sense.....

August 12

I've been off for two weeks.  He comes and sees the kids or calls.  We're getting closer.  Things are getting better.

August 14

He came by in the morning before he went to work.

August 15

Here again in the morning before work.

August 16

This is becoming a habit, here again before work.

August 18

We took the kids to the zoo again.  I asked him again about the clothes and aftershave.  He is definitely hiding something.  Says he doesn't have a girlfriend.  I hope he's not using me.  Maybe this is all too good to be true.

August 19

Came by before work.

August 20

Came by before work.

August 21

Came by before work.

August 23

Came by before work.

August 25

We all went to Elora Gorge, Churchill Park and China Sails for dinner.

August 26

Came by before work.

August 31

R's birthday.  Family party for her here.  A great day until the phone rang.  All hell broke loose with a late night phone call.  He's been living with someone else the entire time, not his brother but another woman.  When he left here he moved in with her.  She told me that he was approaching her while he still lived here, which would explain the nights he never came home and the late nights.  She said she told him he had to break it off with me first before she would have him.  Apparently he told her I kicked him out of the bedroom and I never cooked for him or did anything in the house.  Boy was I a fool.  He doesn't love me or the kids, he's been covering his own ass this whole time.  I told him he comes home and we work on the relationship or I'll see him in court.  He came home and stayed the night.